As Salaamu Alaikum Wa Ramatullahi Wa Barakatuhu
I was born muslim, but future mate that's not a requirement for you...
I have three daughters, two are still at home,
and me not being actively present I'll never condone...
I am a community outreach worker, home schooler, and mother full time...
My ultimate goal is saving myself & family from the fire by serving the DIVINE...
I strive to be a vehicle that encourages and implements change;
my favorite pastime, is keeping my tongue wet with my LORD's name...
As a member of Muhammad's (s) constantly growing community.
I bow down where they bow down in praise of the ALMIGHTY...
I claim no specific jummat, tareeqah, or madh-hab and have no intentions of doing so...
Tauheed is my requirement, so where it is established I make it my business to go...
I am striving to renew myself, mind body and soul;
yes it is a struggle, but I know ALLAH is in full control...
Please note, I don't have a wali, I have a wali committee;
to help guide are 4 couples in addition to my family...
My ideal partner is striving on the path that leads to the Most High;
He is humble & strong enough to submit when his heart inclines him to cry...
He is not confined by one community or of any particular sect per say;
to bow down where believers bow down is this brother's spiritual way...
Providing financially is not a burden for him, it's his joy to seek GOD's pleasure,
and the degree he has over me isn't abused because he's aware I'm a treasure...
Increasing his knowledge, then sharing are attributes he reflect,
while our taqwa, faith & honor he constantly seeks to protect...
His desire to be physically active is yet another attractive trait;
for I'm a sister seeking assistance in releasing her extra weight...
Though my home is my domain, captive he doesn't hold me;
he allows me to actively contribute to our inner & outer community...
Extremism is a reflection he has no desire to see in himself;
balance is the formula he uses to maintain his spiritual health...
Sura Ar Rahman being memorized as part of my dowry made his heart smile,
because denying any of our LORD's many favors is certainly not his style...
His need for immediate offsprings has already been fulfilled...
yet about assisting with the guidance of my girls, he's more than thrilled...
Not combining our homes completely is a concept he wholeheartedly embraces;
out of respect for my daughters modesty he sees the wisdom in us having two places...
This is a short description of Amelah El-Amin's ideal muslim man;
Now she will patiently observe as her LORD unfolds HIS master plan...
May ALLAH be pleased...ameen ♥
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